So when do we normally say a person to be bad? It's so obvious when he or she has done something not in your favor.
Example: Hungry TIGER is said to be bad by the DEER. Tiger- how can i be a good tiger. deer- Eat grass like me why do you hurt others? Tiger- :( i understand you.
Love and Relationship aren't mean to be selfish, Love is when you love the other person to be Good for no reason and not for being with you. Person should be free to stay or go away as they please and this should not change your way of respecting and caring them as that of before.
Simply it's give away and non expectation what a real Free Relation is all about.
The Harder you try to stop thinking is when you actually think more about it. It could be about anything like your business deals, memory or trying to sleep at night.
Just let worries go away and do what you have to do will sets everything in its right place.
Human being are so busy caring about there life and there preferences in life that they don't have any actual intention to do good or , bad for others.
Every human being are as innocent as baby then what makes them think or do good or bad for others?
A baby learn calling mummy or daddy without even knowing what it actually mean just trying to learn what the other person speaking in front of the baby, similarly the surrounding where we live in affects and make us think in similar way. This could be the effect of long run history of the effect.
Human mirror dont just effect in long duration over mind but at the exact instant of time as well.
Example: A Happy mind makes other happy mind and a sad mind makes other sad mind.
The way you respond to other human being will directly effect the way of their respond towards you.